Client: "Should I leave VA and move to LA? My boyfriend is there."Answer: got nothing. big nothing. no hints. no tips. no nothing.
My wording of her question: "What guidance, for her highest good, is there about her moving to LA? What will help her make the decision about moving?"
Answer. I see a matrix and ask if she has a comprehensive list of pros and cons around this decision. She confirms. I mention the criteria don't weigh evenly making for tough analysis. Though a worthwhile effort, it isn't really working, eh. This decision is meant for the heart, not the head.
My question to client: "What does your heart want?"
Client: "I have no idea! It's all jumbled up!"
My question for intuitive guidance: "How can I assist?"
Answer. Coin.
My internal response. Excuse me? She's come for spiritual guidance and I ought to suggest she flip a coin? Breathe. Coin again. Breathe. Yup. Coin. Okay. Here goes.
My guidance to client. "As you have discovered, there are many opportunities and concerns with both choices. There are no guarantees. You've considered the alternatives if the relationship doesn't work out. Really, what you need is simply a decision.... Let's flip a coin and be done with it. Heads you go. Tails you stay. FLIP.
Client: She jumps out of her seat and screeeaaaammmmssss..."HEADS!! HEADS!!!! Well...is it heads!!??? Is it??"
The realization. I look at her dearly, deeply, with a mischievous grin. "Does it matter? I think we both know what you want now."
Her eyes widen. Tears of relief flow. And out comes her desire. "Yes. I sooo soooo soooo want to go. I guess I'm just scared of what will happen." We hug. That was interesting.
But there's more. Then...all of sudden I sense more guidance about to come. I reach for a card. Flip the card. The title on the card is, "Go For It!" We both crack up. Then 10 minutes of details come about the relationship, the move, the timing and how she can best realize her potential in this situation.
My intention is to empower. I could have seen the move earlier and just told her to move. But she wouldn't have been fulfilled by having some psychic tell her to go. She needed to make the decision on her own. I am simply a facilitator for her spirit to move freely. I won't see beyond what is best for anyone. How lovely.
You know when it is time to know. I get messages when they are relevant. Not sooner. Even if I want them! I must trust what I get when I get it. Share it. That's it. If there's more we want to know, it'll come when it is appropriate, intuitively or otherwise.
She moved. They married. Living happily for years now.
Oh. And we never did look at what side the coin landed on.
Labels: empower, intuitive timing, love
I've been working with a chiropractor the past six months and just adore her. She's helping me open up my whole spine, neck and chest. Today, she said, "Meredith, ever since I met you I've been really paying attention to my intuition. And you know, I'm really noticing so much more. I'm very intuitive. It's just so true that whatever we focus on we can develop."
