since i met you i notice my own intuition in new ways

I've been working with a chiropractor the past six months and just adore her. She's helping me open up my whole spine, neck and chest. Today, she said, "Meredith, ever since I met you I've been really paying attention to my intuition. And you know, I'm really noticing so much more. I'm very intuitive. It's just so true that whatever we focus on we can develop."

She already knew she was intuitive. Now she's using it even more intentionally. A lot of people who I meet tell me later that they are much more intuitive now and trust themselves more. I seem to hold space for that. :) I simply share and love seeing the light on inside so I notice it in others.

It all comes down to intention and attention. Simply pay attention to it. Notice it. Ask questions.

"I intend to allow my intuition to guide me for my highest good in all areas of my life. I'm open to only the highly guidance for all concerned. I welcome it. I notice it."

• How can I be more intuitive?
• What stops my intuition?
  
• How does my intuition work?
• Where does intuition come from?
• What does my intuition suggest about ___________(specific topic or area of your life)?

Sometimes people simply don't think to ask these questions. I ask them all the time and that's why my tuning keeps refining. I pay attention. So can you.

What questions/intentions have you/will you use to strengthen your intuition?

coin flip for guidance

Client: "Should I leave VA and move to LA? My boyfriend is there."

Answer: got nothing. big nothing. no hints. no tips. no nothing.

My wording of her question: "What guidance, for her highest good, is there about her moving to LA? What will help her make the decision about moving?"

Answer. I see a matrix and ask if she has a comprehensive list of pros and cons around this decision. She confirms. I mention the criteria don't weigh evenly making for tough analysis. Though a worthwhile effort, it isn't really working, eh. This decision is meant for the heart, not the head.

My question to client: "What does your heart want?"

Client: "I have no idea! It's all jumbled up!"

My question for intuitive guidance: "How can I assist?"

Answer. Coin.

My internal response. Excuse me? She's come for spiritual guidance and I ought to suggest she flip a coin? Breathe. Coin again. Breathe. Yup. Coin. Okay. Here goes.

My guidance to client. "As you have discovered, there are many opportunities and concerns with both choices. There are no guarantees. You've considered the alternatives if the relationship doesn't work out. Really, what you need is simply a decision.... Let's flip a coin and be done with it. Heads you go. Tails you stay. FLIP.

Client: She jumps out of her seat and screeeaaaammmmssss..."HEADS!! HEADS!!!! Well...is it heads!!??? Is it??"

The realization. I look at her dearly, deeply, with a mischievous grin. "Does it matter? I think we both know what you want now."

Her eyes widen. Tears of relief flow. And out comes her desire. "Yes. I sooo soooo soooo want to go. I guess I'm just scared of what will happen." We hug. That was interesting.

But there's more. Then...all of sudden I sense more guidance about to come. I reach for a card. Flip the card. The title on the card is, "Go For It!" We both crack up. Then 10 minutes of details come about the relationship, the move, the timing and how she can best realize her potential in this situation.

My intention is to empower. I could have seen the move earlier and just told her to move. But she wouldn't have been fulfilled by having some psychic tell her to go. She needed to make the decision on her own. I am simply a facilitator for her spirit to move freely. I won't see beyond what is best for anyone. How lovely.

You know when it is time to know. I get messages when they are relevant. Not sooner. Even if I want them! I must trust what I get when I get it. Share it. That's it. If there's more we want to know, it'll come when it is appropriate, intuitively or otherwise.

She moved. They married. Living happily for years now.

Oh. And we never did look at what side the coin landed on.

did you know you changed my life?

“I kept watching you with your son,” he said. “The way you talk to each other is something I hadn’t seen before. It’s so natural. It’s so comfortable. Like he’s an adult. I go home and am trying all new language with my son and it is changing our relationship. He’s opening up more. He’s less angry. And I actually enjoy him. I always loved him. But now I actually like him. The slightest language change has really made a difference. Like I used to say, ‘I have to watch my son.’ Now I look forward to our time and say, ‘This is our time together. Where it used to be an intrusion on something I need to get done, now I cherish it and won’t let anything interrupt it.’

Wow. I had no idea the impact I was having. No idea. It wouldn’t change anything if I did, of course. But it just goes to show how the littlest thing can touch people. All the more reason to be loving and joyful. That’s easy with my son...I can work on it in other areas.

so, is it like fortune telling, or what?

Or what. I think each person has control over their choices and free will and I look for ways to empower that thinking. I suppose sometimes I do see the future and what will happen, but only when certain choices are already in motion and it will help the person to hold their vision, change their vision to match what they really want, or to help them prepare for how they will handle the experience.

“I don’t really get it.”

You make your own fortune. Sometimes when I work with someone, they reveal it to me through their heart when their mind is still blocking seeing it. I see it only when their heart wants the conscious mind to know.

“I still don’t get it.”

I help people get in touch with their own intuition.

“Great. I’ll do that.”

Okay.