tips
The following tips may help you get more out of a consultation.
- Choose your topics.
Decide what topics you want insight on in advance, and ask the most important question first.
It is fine to ask for overall guidance and suggestions, but feel free to be specific.
- Be calm.
The more relaxed you are, the more you will be able to take in. Be ready for your appointment 10 minutes ahead of time so you are not rushing and more relaxed and receptive.
It's great to use that time to take slow, deep breaths and focus on your topics. You can also focus on the intention to receive the insight you need for right now.
- Ask for clarification.
Feel free to ask questions or ask for clarification at any time. It's fine to discuss something and may help me tune in more specifically for you.
It's also fine to just listen to whatever insights come.
- Explore.
Insight is helpful. Embodying the wisdom creates true transformation. I may invite you into an exercise or experience to know for yourself. It is up to you if you'd like
to accept the invitation but I encourage you to consider exploring.
- Be open.
Be open to new possibilities. Be open to answers to your questions. The more open you are, the more ability you have to learn and enjoy
(true in any learning situation). Listen. Notice if the insights resonate truth to you. Then make your decisions about what is right for you now.
- Be gentle with yourself.
If something brings up a strong emotional reaction in you, that is probably an area with deep patterns. Take your time with it.
You don't need to figure it all out in the moment. Just be open to new possibilities in this (and all) moments so you flow with change and new experiences.
- If you want to tape the session or take notes, feel free.
Recording or taking notes may help you be relaxed so you can more fully listen. A record may help you listen to the specific words later,
so you can interpret them more accurately. Listening 3-6 months later may be especially amusing and interesting, as oftentimes part of the message is
preparing you for what energy could be flowing into your life. With this said, however, I believe that the important messages sink in without any notes at all.
- Reflect afterwards.
Plan to take some quiet time for yourself after a reading to reflect on your own intuitions about the messages.
- All of life will show you.
You are not separate from life. All of life is constantly revealing its nature, your nature. Every moment, every experience (and I mean, every single one) is showing you.
- Find out for yourself.
Believe nothing I say without directly exploring it for yourself. Discover everything for yourself. I am just a guide pointing the way back into you.
- Act.
If you are hungry, it is far more satisfying to taste the banquet than just think about it, right? Well, insights can stay conceptual
but it is when you experience and embody the wisdom that you truly transform. The action will arise naturally without you doing it.
- Enjoy yourself.
Life's purpose is to be lived. Enjoy the ride. There is nowhere to get to, no one else to become, nothing to attain and nothing to get rid of. You are everything you seek in this moment already. If you disagree with what is here, you are in never winnable battle with Reality. Reality always in. Might as well enjoy the ride.
If you feel like sharing, then dp. You are welcome to stay in touch. We're all in this together. We are all one.